18 Apr Sticking Together After IT Happens
Learn from the animal kingdom....and stick together.
Hi Tina,
My new boyfriend and I enjoy really great sex, but the only thing is I feel a bit let down afterwards because he just jumps up and takes a shower. I know I should express myself but how do I do this without offending him?
Well…
congrats to both of you for enjoying one of god’s great gifts! However, the aftercare is equally as important as the beautiful sexual act because not only is it a way of honoring the fact that you just intimately shared your bodies, but also brings your intimacy to a higher level. Asking him to consider your request to spend a little while relaxing into each other’s arms to prolong the post- coital contentment, might be a great way to introduce the topic. And, finding your voice by expressing your needs also honors who you are and your own self-worth. Hope these suggestions work! And, you know what? Sometimes we can learn from our other earthy roommates – the animal kingdom…… Take a look at dogs, wolves, or even whales. These sex partners are literally stuck together for a few minutes to 30 after the sexual act…. Maybe we can borrow a page from this playbook 😊.
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